You are Awesome!

1 October 2013

Hello October!

September was awesome, you better be good too! 

This post is not a beauty or a fashion review nor is it an event review, & because this is the first day of the month, I'd like to share something with you. 

It'll be worth it, I promise!

I saw this video on Facebook and it has gone viral, Some of you may have seen this & some of you might not . If you have not seen it then, please take a few minutes to watch it. 

I believe that it is what every girl, every woman should feel about herself. 

Over the past year, I have learned to love myself so that my happiness is not depended on anyone, to be specific, to not depend on any GUY. I went through a roller-coaster ride last year. This is something personal but I would like to share it with all of you, so that by the end of this post, you'll realize that

Last year, my life had turned upside down because the person I considered my life , threw that life away. For four and a half years, I thought I was with THE ONE. The One that I would live for and would risk my life for. But, after Four years of going through good times and bad, it finally ended. The reasons were ridiculous (Obviously he couldn't say that he left for someone else). 
To let go of something so real for something that I think is mere infatuation is just plain silly. 
Yes, I had my flaws, 
but would you agree with me when I say ALL gf's would want the same things, like,  
attention, affection, time.....
& so , I wanted all that, maybe a little more, but I would say I blame myself as I let my past relationship consume me. What I could not put myself to believe was what I got in return, "I wanna love someone as much as you love me'' 
Boy, chances like that only come once. No two girls are the same. 

*Girls & Guys, remember this, 
If your partner loves you more than you love him/her, DON'T LET HER/HIM GO. Because, when he or she loves you more than you do, LOVE is enough for the both of you to make it through whatever*

Okay, I don't want to get too personal, but what I'm tryna say is that, My world fell apart, BUT now, NOW, I have come so far, although it hurts, I know that the person I have become since all that is stronger that what I used to be, I know my value, what I'm worth, and no one can put me down. I have gone through thunderstorms, sunny days, and days where the rainbow was just the most beautiful thing to look at.
I know this might be something normal but I guess I got my heart broken because of this. Bottom line is, whether you've been through a rough relationship or if you've got haters that can't see you happy, always remember that you are beautiful just the way you are and when you learn to love yourself  for who you actually are, no one can take that away from you. 
You will realize that your happiness actually comes from within yourself and that you are capable of doing  much more that you think.

 Because, you are loved!

Loved by the BIG MAN that created you and Loved by the people around you. Cherish the friends, family , cousins, siblings, all those who take time to be there for you not only during happy times. 

I can personally say that I AM SO LUCKY to have all those people in my life. God took something that was not good for me, but he gave me a lot more of what I need. 

So, whatever it is, don't feel dishearten, remember, 

I hope this video help motivate you girls out there!

p/s-Drop me a comment, I'd love to hear that this made a difference to you. or if you have gone through something that caused you to come out stronger  <3

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